Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Still In Michigan...



Dear Friends,

Well, today my parents are coming up to see Kate and I in Michigan. It should be a good time as we have both sides of the family together for a couple dates. So far Kate and I have really just been enjoying the Christmas season and getting in some wedding planning when we have the time. We did our wedding "tasting" yesterday which was pretty cool. We were able to sample some great food and finally actually see, in person, the place where we will be getting married. It's a great venue with the wedding ceremony, dinner reception, and guest rooms all within a few hundred feet of each other. It takes some effort to get there, but once everyone is there it should be great. We're looking forward to the convenience as well as the beautiful setting. The wedding will be small, but it should still be a pretty rockin' party.

What else? There really hasn't been a lot of other "events" in the past week other than meeting plenty of Kate's old friends as well as hanging out with family. We are being well-fed and well taken care of by Kate's parents. They live right on the water (which now is covered with ice). It's basically a resort home with the view and incredible setting. Anyway, Michigan is obviously incredibly cold, but we are beating it with warm homes and lots of relaxing! This Christmas vacation has been exactly what both Kate and I needed. I'll write again soon. Bye!

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Stuff Is Still Happening...


Kate and I At a Recent Ugly Sweater Party

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Kate and I At Her Church Staff Party


My Recent Military Ball


The Current Navs Bible Study Crew

Dear Friends,

Wow! I can't believe that the last post I made was when Kate and I got engaged. That was over two months ago. Let's just say that a lot has happened since then. Kate and I traveled to Chicago for a week to visit friends and family back in late October. It was a short trip, but it was incredibly relaxing. I took on a new job at work when I returned, and it has been incredibly busy ever since. We are getting back in the swing of things, and although I at times miss all the time off, it is good to feel purposeful again at work.

Kate and I have also gone full blown into wedding planning, and we now are in Michigan for the holidays where we are enjoying time with Kate's family and also finishing some of the wedding planning. The snow is out in force here, and it has already snowed twice since we arrived...big flakes that nearly fill up the air as they fall.

Despite having to do a lot with planning for our wedding, Kate and I are still managing to enjoy this rare extended period of time together. It is a nice taste before we go for 4 more months of the medium-distance relationship back in Washington. God continues to teach us a lot through our time together, and we both feel incredibly blessed this year. We are actually off to a Christmas party tonight at one of Kate's family friends. It gives us both an excuse to get dressed up and enjoy the holiday season.

Anyway, I promise to do better and not go as long without updating this blog in the future. I hope that the large number of photos in this post make up for my absence. Merry Christmas, and I hope that the New Year treats you well!

Sunday, October 17, 2010

Kate and I Are Engaged!


Dear Friends,

Well, there may have been some other stuff going on in the past couple weeks, but by far the biggest news is that I asked Kate to marry me...and she said "YES!" It seemed to be a big hit when I wrote about how Kate and I met...and a lot of people have been asking me the engagement story. As a result, let me tell it here...although I'm sure the story will be told many more times in the coming years.

It was this last Friday, Oct. 15th, and it was our regular date day. I had made sure that we were set up to be alone together for the day's entirety. I was staying at a friends house in Seattle so that I could be closer to Kate's house, and I got up early so that I could go buy some red roses and make it over to her house before she woke up. Her extremely helpful roommate Janette let me into the apartment early in the morning; I set up a trail of rose pedals from Kate's bedroom door to the living room table. On the table I left a simple note telling her that I love her along with the roses...trying to start off the day with a little romance without making it obvious what I was building up to do.

After she woke up and read the note, we went to The Flying Apron...her favorite coffee shop where we ate a light breakfast and did our devotionals together. An hour later we went right next door for our full body massages at a place she loves. At this point we were both completely 100% relaxed just enjoying each other and the beautiful day. And God certainly blessed us with beautiful weather! The air had a slight chill to it, and the sun was shining bright. We had the perfect Fall-Seattle day thanks to the Man Upstairs. Ultimately this was my goal: to get Kate completely relaxed so that she could enjoy the day. I also recommend this technique to any guys who like me know that asking a beautiful girl such a huge question can be nerve-racking. The easy day put me in a relaxed mood too.

After our massages we got some food from the local grocery store and went back to her place where we cooked an awesome brunch together. This activity...simply cooking and being close to each other was one of the best parts of the day since we are still living over an hour apart. Time together doing everyday things is truly special. We enjoyed the food, and then we relaxed at her place for about an hour. The weather was thankfully still gorgeous, and we went down to Green Lake which is within walking distance from her house. It is a beautiful lake with plenty of more private areas right on the water...with a view of Mount Rainier's top and the Olympics too. We got halfway around the lake, and by this time her ring (which had never left my side within the past 24 hours) had begun to burn a whole in my pocket. We found a nice little pavilion by the lake with cement steps leading right down to the water. We sat down by the water for a few minutes, and I had planned to go through a series of scripture passages which had given me confirmation and encouragement for our relationship in the past months. I fumbled my words, and felt like there really was only one appropriate thing to do. I brushed the rest of the speech aside and simply asked her "Will you marry me?" Kate said "yes", and we ended up spending some more time down by the lake looking through John 15, and just talking about all the new excitement and joy we had.

After I proposed, we still had plenty of time in the day. After a couple phone calls and a load of texts, we both turned off our cell phones and promised to take the rest of the night for each other. We both got ready for dinner, and Kate came out looking absolutely beautiful as usual. She's the type of girl who can take your breath away every time you see her. I walked her down the street to Mona's Restaurant. We ate some awesome food in a romantic setting where a live Jazz band ended our night together.

The best part of this story is that my opportunities to be romantic and sincere are just beginning. I look forward to the next few months of our engagement, and I hope that Kate and I can get time with all of you who have been involved in our lives...either separately or together. Thank you all again for your continued support and prayers!

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Camping, Seattle, & Other Stuff...



Dear Friends,

My days have been random...to say the least. I've gone camping, hung out in West Seattle, and a myriad of other activities. However, I barely remember any of them...the pace of life has not really slowed down much. The Washington Fall is pretty much here too...bringing foggy mornings, chilly nights, and the occasional beautiful day. It is a pretty crazy difference from the 130 degree heat I experienced only 3 weeks ago...a welcome difference for sure.

I've been able to make it out to Mars Hill Church a few times with Kate recently which is a treat. Pastor Mark Driscoll is a man with very little mercy for young men...and I appreciate his ruthless challenges to our temptation towards cowardice, laziness, and other sins. The Navs ministry is also pretty much outgrowing our space at Tuesday night Bible Studies. We're thinking about splitting into two separate studies soon, but we'll see when we actually make the jump. It is cool to see how different things actually are here now...it's a lot of new faces mixed among the old, familiar ones. Anyway, work also continues to be pretty slow. It is giving guys a ton of time to spend with their families...which is a welcome change after 12 months apart.

Okay...so I'll write again soon! Bye!

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Welcomed Home...



Dear Friends,

It is good to be back...although a part of me feels as though much of my brain was left in Kuwait. I was welcomed home last Saturday by Kate and a bunch of my friends here in WA. Life right now is very "free" and easy-going, but I'm just trying to ease back into life here in the states...realizing that a year away can require a small transition period. Luckily the Army has a great system in place designed to give us exactly that...a down period after deployment designed to maximize time with family. This last week has been a lot of briefings, attempts to get settled, and plenty of time with good friends. Kate was able to go to her friend Ali's wedding in Maryland this week, and I was lucky enough to be able to go to Cushman Lake for some amazing Labor Day Weekend camping. The best part was probably jumping off a huge rock into the lake ...enjoying the cool water and the amazing scenery. It was really surreal...it was exactly what I needed...time spent out in God's creation with some brothers.

I apologize if I haven't been able to call some of you back. I've received a ton of phone calls this past week (warranted considering how long I was gone and awesome to feel loved too), but I haven't had a lot of down time yet. My hope is that these next two weeks will be a lot easier since I'm over the initial hump of getting back in the swing of things. I'll try to return all your calls soon...I look forward to catching up. Bye!

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

DEFN: Prayerwalk (N.)

Prayerwalk: The act of talking to God while moving along on the ground.

I believe that an ancient, ADHD monk invented prayerwalks in the early 11th century...mostly because he kept getting kicked out of his prayer classes, and walking was the only way he could keep focused. Hundred of years later this same phenomenon has once again become popular...it was first reintroduced by a man named Luke C. in Dupont, WA almost 1.5 years ago. This is where I rediscovered its value. In 2nd grade my teacher, Mrs. Benbow, allowed me to stand up and sometimes move around in class...because she knew that this helped me think. I have since reapplied this concept. My mother, aka. Mother "Hiphop" Fahs, has been doing this for years most mornings...putting in some hard prayer-miles at the local Hicksville track. That's right...you can combine personal fitness with spiritual fitness. Crazy, huh?

Well, as you can probably tell...not much is going on here. I'm still waiting to catch a plane. Hopefully I'll be back soon!

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Back Here...

Dear Friends,

I am still in Kuwait...waiting (no pun intended). However, this isn't as bad as it sounds. I am sleeping 9 hours a day...I go to the gym whenever and for as long as I want...the food is good...and it is giving me time to process a very busy year. Overall, I am obviously eager to get back home to WA...to a very special girl, a time of relaxation, and a group of brothers/sisters who have prayed me through the entire deployment. However, I am not anxious...rather just content.

Some may be asking me now..."Hey, what is there to do in a desert (not to be confused with dessert...the sign in our cafeteria reads 'desert bar'...which is funny given our current geography?" Well, the activities really are endless. I have a few good books needing to get read. There are also plenty of movies and other "entertainment tents" dedicated to keeping Soldiers occupied and out of trouble. The days still go by quickly...and I have my eye on the prize. I hope you all are doing well as you read this. My hope is to be back soon. Bye!

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

In Kuwait...

Dear Friends,

I am in Kuwait. That is all for now. Thanks.

Saturday, August 14, 2010

My Last Days Here...


Dear Friends,

Well, I can't say how many, but I am definitely in my last days here in IRock. There are a couple more geographical stops before I land in Washington again, but my return seems to be imminent now...the days truly do continue to fly by. I read Romans 15:29 today, and it seemed written directly to me. It says, "I know that when I come to you, I will come in the full measure of the blessing of Christ." I will not be overly optimistic about this deployment. There have definitely been some harder and more testing days. There were times when God didn't seem as close...and the fellowship with my brothers wasn't as tight. However, looking back now I can honestly say that I have been blessed by Jesus every single day. I always had a Christian brother in my same Company...first with my Commander...and then with Reed Timme when he arrived 4 months ago. I was also able to influence a few guys to get into the Word and grow their relationship with Jesus. Finally, I have felt the love, encouragement, and prayers of you all back in the states on a regular basis. To all of you who have supported me...thank you. Please continue to find brothers who are deployed and support them. Not all of them will be as fortunate with fellowship as I have been, and your letters, emails, and packages help an incredible amount.

So yeah...not much else has changed. The last month of transition has been good. It helps time go by, and it has gotten us one step closer to home...which is the ultimate goal. The picture above is me thinking about how awesome it will be once I get back home to my friends and family. You all rock. Please keep me and the men of Able Company in your prayers. We'll see you all soon!

Monday, August 9, 2010

We're Sleeping At The Same Time Now...


Dear Friends,

Hey...guess what? We're sleeping at the same time now...at least roughly. I just started working at night instead of during the day. It's getting so hot during the day that most of us here in my unit are beginning to work at night more. The good part about this is that I'll now be up at about the same time as ya'll back in the states. My hope is that this will ease my jet lag and all that transition stuff when I finally come home. We'll see if it works. Luckily there's also meals still offered at night...we call it "Midnight Chow" appropriately. Again, we are definitely fed well over here...no complaints in that department for sure.

In other news...it is still very good to have Reed around for encouragement and fellowship. Luke is close by too, but unfortunately we haven't really crossed paths much in the past month. It turns out that being on the same base doesn't guarantee that you see each other a lot. I'm staying grounded in the Word daily, and I've continued a new workout routine. Once a week I run on the treadmill and memorize scripture as I run for about 40 minutes. It helps pass the time, keeps me from watching the junk that's normally on the gym TVs, and overall has helped my spirit a lot. I do something similar on lifting days by reviewing scripture in between sets.

So yeah...time is quickly ticking away here. I have a feeling that I'll be back before I even realize it. I hope that you all continue to enjoy everyday of your summers. Thank you for your continued prayers. We're not done yet, but we are certainly getting closer. Bye!

Friday, July 23, 2010

Another Week Down...


Some Locals Wondering What All The Army Guys Are Doing


An Iraqi Army Traffic Jam

Dear Friends,

I can't really say that the days have been going by fast...mainly because I currently have no concept of time. For those of you who have never experienced an extended period of time without weekends all I can say is this...the way our calendar is designed is a gift...I always loved weekends (and nights off) in the past, but now I have a new appreciation for them. I look forward to the 5 day work week when I get back. A positive result of the schedule here, though, is that you never break stride. There is no Monday "pump-up", Wednesday "hump", or other struggles of a broken up work schedule. We just keep on rolling...and that eats time up like a large day-eating-monster.

In other news...I am now dating a pre-school teacher...which I think is every man's dream in life...patient and able to teach children (especially big 26 year olds who are actually still big kids). I can now check that one off my list. But seriously...I miss Kate and you all in the states very much. It's crazy to think that I'll be back soon (how soon you ask? Hmmm...you'll have to ask the Pres on that one). My plans are numerous, but I believe I ultimately will be satisfied as soon as I take one breath of that good ole' Washington air. Ski season...you'll be here before I know it.

Thursday, July 15, 2010


Some ask me what I do in IRock...deadlifting enormous amounts of weight is just one. I try to spend a minimum of 8 hours in the gym everyday...mostly focusing on chest, biceps, and abs...the most important muscle groups.

Ha! Actually this is from awhile ago...part of the Battalion Iron Man Competition. I think that the guy after me deadlifted 550 lbs...which is a lot more. I'm actually posting this message just to make sure no one sends anymore packages or letters. At this point there is a good chance that it would not find me in time since I'm kinda in transit. However, I would like to use this time to thank everyone who did support me this deployment through cards, pictures sent, letters, and packages. These things mean more to me than you will likely ever know. For now please take this as my most sincere "Thank You!"

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Arrived...

Dear Friends,

I have arrived...although I can't announce where, I can let you know that it is one step closer to getting me back to the place like no place on earth...the United States! If you've never appreciated the spectacular weather and climate of the US, then just spend a few months in a desert. It gives much perspective. In other news, it is hot. I've heard of temperatures around 105, but this is the first I've ever seen 122...and it's only getting hotter. Thank God for A/C.

Also! I am now once again next to the best cafeteria I've ever been to in the world. Some may not get this excited over the food, but I go bananas...B-A-N-A-N-A-S. It is so good...fresh fruit, stir fry bar, omelets en la manana. I am spoiled by all of the delicacies right at my finger tips. The last time I was here was about 10 months ago. Oh how I have missed this place!

There is a lot more going on here than just good food. For instance, the BDG is still meeting nightly...although it is in transit currently. We're now reading through Acts and the early church. It is motivating to read about the courage and boldness of guys like Stephen, Phillip, and Peter. We have been learning a lot from them. Overall, I can't complain. I have plenty of work to make the days seem like they fly by, and my stomach is content...oh yeah, and I have A/C. Like I said...it's all good here. I'll write again soon.

Monday, June 28, 2010

At It Again...


From R&R...Oh Wheaton!


Me, My Old Commander, and My Chaplain

Dear Friends,

The routine continues, and each day is still flying by...however, these days are numbered. We should start some new routines here pretty soon with transitions coming. This is a good thing since it keeps us on our toes. No one wants to get complacent.

Anyway, we are nearing the end of our study of Luke in our Bible discussion group, and I have to say that I have felt incredibly blessed to be a part of it. God has continued to provide me with fellowship wherever I have been so far in the Army. I had Chris Bean and the Nav's at Fort Benning. Then I had Jamie, Andrew, and the rest of the guys at Fort Lewis, and so far in Iraq I haven't gone a day without a brother close by to provide encouragement and friendship. I won't say that I'll miss this place too much once I'm gone, but I can say with confidence that I know my time here has not been wasted on any level. I continue to be blessed in all situations, tough times, and joys. Those who have ever visited a country like this know the full extent of our blessings back in the states. It gives perspective I never received before.

So the days tick away, and there's still plenty of work to be done. In the end, though, I have nothing to complain about. Reed also continues to do well as a new Platoon Leader. He has instantly earned respect in the Company and has found his rhythm. Luke also is dong well, but he is being worked like a dog. He'll definitely be joyously welcoming the "lighter days" when we get back. Speaking of which...I hesitate to mention any dates for when we'll be back...mainly because it could change even just days before the scheduled flights home. There's a lot that could still change, but by in large I can almost guarantee you that I'll be home by my one-year mark...which is September 12th. Only time will tell. I'll write again soon when I can. Bye!

Monday, June 21, 2010

What Have I Been Doing?



Dear Friends,

When asked, "Hey David, what have you been doing?"...I admit that I really can't remember at times. The ball is really starting to roll along over here in many ways. All I know is that the days fly by and the weeks blur together. I can't believe that we are nearing the end of June. Did I already turn 26? Yup, that was a week ago. The nightly Bible discussion groups add a good routine to my days by giving necessary fellowship. Reed and I are there every night, and there are 3 others who make it more than half the time. There are a few more who have come out, but I am finding that most guys aren't willing to give up a time every day. Many are satisfied with checking the Sunday morning church block. Hopefully God can use what we're doing here to show them how it is a daily commitment. In the end, I am encouraged every night by the fellowship and sharing of the Word.

The above photos are from Sadam's palace taken today (yes, I went back...this time to re-enlist my Stryker Vehicle Commander, SGT Bloom). Our old commander, CPT Roberts, was able to make it out. He leaves early to go back home soon so it was good to see him one last time. The rest of the gang enjoyed walking around the huge central room, sitting in the dictator's old throne, and wondering why anyone would have a marble toilet. It is always good to get out of our small base...so today can definitely be chalked up as another good day. Please continue to pray for the Soldiers' safety and that we'll all be home safe in a few months. Complacency can surface towards the end, and I really want to finish strong...in every respect. Alright...I will write again as soon as I am able.

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Long Time...

Dear Friends,

I realize that it has been a long time since I last wrote. The truth of the matter is that I don't like posting if I don't have pictures to accompany the post (I know that most people are like me...flipping through magazines to look at all the cool pictures before reading any articles). However, it has been much too long...so I'll write today and post pictures later.

Anyway, life has been zipping along here. I am busy enough to make the time fly by, but I still have enough free time to remain low-stressed and content. I've been reading a book by Mark Driscoll this month called "Religion Saves & 9 Other Misconceptions". In addition to that I've been learning a ton through my time in the Word, prayer, and these nightly BDGs (Bible Discussion Group). The BDG is growing in strength. Reed still is there pretty much every night with me, and I'd say that our average numbers were around 5 this past week. It's definitely not about quantity, though. I'm much more excited and encouraged to see these guys develop convictions for themselves by reading the Word. After following Jesus for many years now, I sometimes find myself jealous of their new zeal and passion for the Word. Guys like SPC Rivera and SGT Scott motivate me a ton. Reed also continues to be a continual source of fellowship. I am blessed beyond expression with my current situation. God continues to be good to me.

There's plenty more going on right now, but overall it's all stuff that would bore or confuse most people. If you're interested in the big picture, then just look what's going on in the Iraqi government. It'll give you an idea of life over here. A summary, however, is that we continue to see progress here. I am glad to be a part of this effort...seeing the change is incredibly rewarding.

In the end I'm trying not to count the days. There's still a lot to get done, and I definitely want to give 100% up until the end. So thank you for your continued prayers and I hope to see you all in a few months. Bye!

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Enjoy Your Summers...


Dear Friends,

My advice to "enjoy your summers" is motivated by the weather here in IRock...where 85 feels cool, and 110 isn't uncommon. Did I mention it's only May? Ha! Luckily the A/C in most of the buildings here works wonderfully. I can go outside, sweat through my uniform, and then relax as I send out a few emails back in my office (my office is actually designed like a wind tunnel...an A/C in the wall blowing down the narrow corridor which is my room). My exact future continues to be unknown, but I am prepared to stay the entire 12 months. The simple fact is that we have a job here to finish 7 years in the making...it would be foolish to slow down 10 yards from the finish line. For those of you who have been here in the past I truly do believe that your efforts are seeing their fruit now.

Some really good news is that Reed Timme (a new Lieutenant) just came to my Company, and he is also very involved in the Navigators ministry. More importantly, Reed and I started a small group meeting every night at 2100 in our chapel. We've had 3 others come out already, and we've only been doing it for about 3 days. My hope is to find 2-3 consistent guys to come out and get excited to be in the Word. My main prayer currently is for this group...namely to see God use our efforts for His glory. I am excited to see Him work. (I also ran into a Soldier from the old AQ Bible Study today...it had been over a month since I last saw him. He misses the study but is doing well.)

Anyway, life continues to hum along here in IRock. It is hard being away from all you friends and family back in the states, but please never feel sorry for me. I love what I do, and I have great satisfaction with my work...something many in our country do not have. I am blessed. It's really that simple. Alright...I will write again as soon as I am able.

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

The Story Of How We Met...



Dear Friends,

Well, I have been back in IRock for about 5 days now, and I am already back into a rhythm. It really felt like I just took a long nap and then woke up in the same place (after a really nice long dream). The weather is getting warmer, but nothing much else has changed.

I was thinking about over my leave how many people asked the story of how Kate and I met. It was pretty much everyone we talked to. As a result, I anticipate that most who read this blog would also be curious as to how I ever was able to start dating a girl like Kate. I can summarize that question with the answer "God". However, I'm not being funny or cheesy. His hand is actually quite obvious in bringing us together. I can take no credit.

So anyway, I was on my way back from pre-deployment leave at O'hare airport in Chicago last August. I had just enjoyed 2 wonderful weeks relaxing at my parents' house in Hicksville, OH. My mind had already started to transition to the big task ahead. My deployment lay ahead of me like a ominous mountain that I knew I'd have to climb. I was excited and ready to fly out...I had looked forward to this event for nearly 7 years. As a focused individual I struggled with noticing the cute girl sitting across from me at the airport terminal. Apparently she noticed me too as I sat there with my guitar case, baseball cap, Bible open, and moleskin journal in my hand. My mind was determined, though. I had no time to talk to girls in the airport. I was leaving in a month for an entire year. As the hour before the flight progressed, however, two things happened. First off, I learned through a phone call I overheard that she was a Christian planning on going to church the next morning. Great...now she's cute and loves Jesus. But then I got myself re-focused. The second thing that happened is that I entertained the possibility that this girl and I would be seated next to each other on the plane. "If that happened" I told myself, "then I'll talk to her." I then turned up my iPod and rocked out to the Muse for the next 30 minutes before boarding began trying to regain my composure.

On the plane the "coincidental" happened, and we were sat next to each other with the aisle separating us. I don't remember how surprised I was to see this girl actually sitting next to me, but I know that it caused me to retract some of my earlier resolve. "I'll talk to her later in the flight," I said. That way it won't be awkward for as long if our conversation is lame. I flipped open the book I was reading (The Ragamuffin Gospel...an excellent read I might add) and delayed the inevitable.

Not more than 45 minutes into the flight I was startled to realize that the pretty girl was actually talking to me first. "Can I read your Bible?" she asked. All I remember was telling her "Sure" as I quickly got it out of my bag. Apparently she had noticed me reading it in the terminal. Since hers was with her checked baggage, I offered her the solution to her Bible-predicament. I was still finishing my chapter when she thanked me and gave me the Bible back. My intent at this point was to finish my chapter and then strike up conversation with the girl. However, I really can do nothing in defense of my lack of initiative. I was being dumb, and this fact was driven home when I saw that, upon finishing my reading, she was already fast asleep...in a rather cramped, uncomfortable looking position. She remained asleep for the rest of the plane ride which gave me enough time to talk myself out of any expectation to talk to her later in the Seattle airport. When we touched down I got off the plane first, and I expected to maybe see her one more time at the baggage terminal. After that she'd fade into the back of my mind similar to other pretty girls I'd seen...but never talked to in the past.

A peculiar thing happened as I got off the plane though. I felt an odd sensation that I was being followed. I glanced behind me and saw the same girl slowly walking behind me playing on her cell phone. I slowed my walk so that she'd either have to pass me or walk awkwardly behind me. Instead she quickly came up to me again and thanked me for letting me read her Bible. We quickly started talking all the way to the baggage claim. I learned that her name was Kate Campbell, and I instantly knew that I liked this girl. Kate was from Michigan and was going to school in the Seattle area. She also happened to go to Mars Hill Church...which is a large church I had wanted to check out for the past year. We made plans to go the next day if all went well, and Kate so kindly suggested that I get her number in case we wanted to sit next to each other. My friend Luke was also at the baggage claim returning from his pre-deployment leave, and all we could do was smile as we watched this cute girl struggle out of the airport lugging along 2 huge suitcases. I tried to play it cool for the next week, but Luke saw through my efforts from the beginning. He said something to the effect of "You're definitely 'in trouble'". Looking back on it I have to admit that I was.

The next day I met Kate with some of my friends at Mars Hill Church. After church we went out for lunch and then to one of the local markets. On the way back to our cars I finally started playing the part of the man by asking Kate out on a date. The next 4 weeks ended up being exactly what I needed. Kate and I started dating and I had no time to build up any anxiety about the deployment. I was already physically, spiritually, and mentally prepared. Kate gave me the opportunity to just have some fun and enjoy my last few weeks in the states.

So that's the story. Kate definitely has some different perspectives, but I think I told the story pretty accurately. Some rather unimportant details are that I was wearing my red Hicksville t-shirt and that I noticed almost immediately that Kate enjoyed walking around on her tippy-toes (she grew up dancing her whole life). There are a lot of other funny details that probably would only be recalled if I was telling the story out loud in front of a group of people. At least now I have a baseline story down in writing. I hope you enjoyed my attempt to recreate something that I look back on and thank God for. I realize that the chances of us meeting are very slim based on our own efforts. I didn't "seem" to be in a place to start a relationship. The previous 12 months would have been much more convenient, but our long distance relationship since has proven to be its own sort of blessing. At first nothing made much sense. I was deploying in less than 30 days! Why would I meet someone at that time? I'm still learning the full answer to that question. In the end, I admit that I have enjoyed almost every day since even if an ocean separates Kate and I. I'll be back soon, though, and I look forward to seeing that same girl...Kate has redefined airports for me :)

Sunday, April 25, 2010

The Definition of Refreshment...


The Beautiful Girl (Kate) I Caused to Blow Off School For a Week


Kate and I Right Before Taking Off On Our Buggy Ride

Dear Friends,

I have been back in the states for the past 2 weeks, and I now have a new definition of refreshment...it is the Army's mid-tour leave program. It has been absolutely amazing. I was able to steal away my girlfriend Kate (despite her being in the middle of her school's quarter) and tour the MidWest with her. We saw my highschool friends, my college friends, my brother Chris and his wife, and my cousins while in Chicago for a couple days. We then spent 3 beautiful days in Traverse City (TC), Michigan where Kate's family resides finally ending it in the lively town of Hicksville, Ohio where my parents party it up. I couldn't have been more happy when all my friends and cousins got together at my brother's house in Illinois. It was an incredible reunion. We probably laughed for about 5 hours straight...half the time we weren't even sure what was so funny. It really didn't matter I guess. Kate also treated to me to an incredible Martin Sexton concert which we went to with her parents while in TC. We even went on a horse and buggy ride in Hicksville thanks to the Stoll family. Kate and I also got treated too a whole bunch of meals from family and friends...thank you all for those who filled our appetites!

In the end I currently feel completely at peace and ready to go back to IRock, and that really is the purpose of mid-tour leave. I believe that work will be very busy for the next 3-4 months until I return, but I also anticipate that God will do amazing work as we wrap our little trip up. My main prayer requests are for continued safety for the men of 4-9 Infantry and for God to use me in some way to influence those around me. The next time you read a post I'll be back in IRock. I'll catch ya'll on the flip side.

Saturday, April 10, 2010

Leave...

Dear Friends,

Leave officially began for me today. It will be a 2-4 day process to get back to my final destination in the states. I happen to feel like I was just sucked into a weird, whirl-wind, dream in which I got hit by a train. I competed in the Battalion Iron Man competition yesterday as part of our Battalion's Pride Day(max 3 lifts: bench, squat, deadlift & 2 min push-ups, 2 min sit-ups, 2 mile run, & finally max pull-ups and dips). I also stayed up all last night trying to get on the states' clock by not going to bed until 6am. It turns out that my body decided to reject all forms of sleep. I don't think I've actually slept in close to 36 hours now. I'm currently tired, sore, and confused on where I am (I think that I get on a plane to Kuwait in a few hours). I am also completely relaxed for the first time in 7 months. I have no responsibilities other than walking to my plane tonight. God blessed me with an incredible time in the Word today too. I spent a lot of time looking at the purpose of Jesus' time on earth in Matthew, and the lessons were amazing. It's amazing how much I overlook sometimes in the Bible. I really look forward to getting more time with Him over this break.

What else? Well, I really don't have much else to say yet. However, I have a feeling that the next few days are going to continue to be incredible. I look forward to seeing many of you in the coming weeks!

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Q&A Special Edition

I had some friends from the MidWest send me a few questions. I rather enjoyed this Q&A session.

Do you have anyone leading or discipling you when you are over there? This is a good question. Truthfully I really don’t have a spiritual mentor…at least not one with the same focus and intentions that I was used to during the last year at Fort Lewis with Jamie and Andrew. However, I do have a good Chaplain, and both of my Commanders have been believers. I learn a lot from all of them…just not the same that I learned from mentors back in the states.

Have there been any pranks at “camp” or on the road? Hmmm…besides occasionally messing around with people on the radio there haven’t been too many pranks. We try to keep it focused while out on missions. Laughter is definitely a common noise around the office though. There are so many crazy things that pop up randomly on a daily basis that I can’t help but joke around about them. We have a good time together.

What is one thing you look forward to each day that is your highlight of the day? I actually have a few. First, I look forward to beginning every day at the gym. It is a great way to start the day. Secondly, I look forward to getting Kate’s email every day. She does an incredible job of bringing my mind back to familiar things in the states…it’s a mental break from IRock that I usually need. Finally, I love getting in the Word every day. I do it whenever I can at different time throughout the day. This last one is a huge “must” for me.

Do you have a guitar there to play music and worship? I do have a beautiful Martin, composite body (does better with humidity and temperature changes) guitar in my room, but I do not get to play nearly enough. It’s a hobby I refresh myself on a few times a month, but I haven’t been disciplined enough to play daily. I may work this into a more routine thing. I look forward to getting back to my guitar in the states though.

What is one new food you had over there you would recommend? Definitely a kaubob (pronounced “Ka-bob”. It’s basically flat bread with beef or lamb as the main meat. The locals have all sorts of sauces that you can dip the tasty treat in too. There is one guy, Sheik Ali, that hosts us with incredible food all the time. Also, it’s not really food, but their Chai tea is incredibly addicting. Most locals won’t sit down with you for more than a couple minutes without serving you Chai. It’s different than our Chai in the states.

What is something we can pray for that is not obvious, is there anything that is mentally draining? I would like continued prayer to influence those around me rather than vice versa. These Soldiers need Jesus…plain and simple.

Have you been reprimanded for anything (that includes a stain on your shirt or scuff on your boots)? I don’t really get yelled at as an XO. However, my 1SG keeps me in line. For example, recently he informed me that your hair is not allowed to be “blocked off” in the back. It must have a tapered appearance. I didn’t know it, but now I do.

When are you scheduled to come back? Who knows but the original PowerPoint slide said 11SEP2010.

Are you still planning to have your career in the Rangers or would you look elsewhere after your term? This is actually an excellent question in order to clarify a long disputed argument in the Army. Who is a Ranger? There is Ranger School and there is the Ranger Regiment. I went through Ranger School…a 3 phased, 62 day long, exhausting course designed to push you to your limits while testing your leadership abilities under extreme stress. There is also Ranger Regiment. This is an elite Infantry unit. Picture the most disciplined, well-trained Infantrymen in the movies…that’s the Ranger Regiment. Most Soldiers in Ranger Regiment go to Ranger School and as a result wear the Ranger tab. I am with 2nd Infantry Division…a Stryker Infantry Brigade. I also wear the Ranger tab showing that I went to Ranger School. The Army requires most Officers like me to first serve in a conventional Infantry unit like the 2nd ID, and then afterwards they can go to Ranger Regiment which is a smaller, more elite Infantry unit. So the question is…am I a Ranger? Soldiers in my unit would likely say “yes”. Soldiers in the Ranger Regiment may say “yes” or “no”. I don’t say anything.

Would you ever consider a different form of defense other than the Rangers? I don’t know what life looks like in two years…we’ll see. I doubt I’ll ever go to Ranger Regiment though. It is an even faster-paced lifestyle than I currently live, and I’d like to try some other things in the coming years.

Have you been able to use your mortar training? We shot mortars at a range in Kuwait, but we have not yet fired them in IRock. I doubt I’ll ever get to use this training again after getting moved from the mortar platoon 4 months ago. I spend more time with my computer and emails now than with my rifle. We’ll see though.

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Sunny Weather...

Recent Awards Ceremony
Dear Friends,

The weather here is starting to warm up. In reality it's basically like a mild, MidWest summer day right now...lower 90's with the sun blazing. It's starting to get pretty humid too. I think it's going to start getting really bad right around the time I'm leaving. We'll see. In other news...things are going well with the new Commander now fully in position. Operations are relatively light, and a lot of things are still in the planning process right now. This basically means that I don't have nearly as much to do as I've been used to for the past few months. It's a good thing (needed break) and a bad thing (lack of tasks makes time move slower) at the same time. I am trying to take advantage of the new pace though.

My mid-tour leave is quickly approaching. There are some loose ends to tie up before I leave, but the break is definitely in sight. My goal is to "sprint" to the finish...rest always is more enjoyable after a long period of hard work. Thank you all again for your continued support. By the way...if you didn't catch it in the news, then you should know that a new head-honcho was elected last week for IRock. Some have already asked me what this means as though I am an expert. All I do is laugh and remind them, "How should I know...I'm not a doctor."

Thursday, March 25, 2010

Confirmed...

Me, My Commander, and My 1SG
The Boys After a Meeting and Lunch With a Local Leader
A Reunion With Duty A Month After We Left AQ
Dear Friends,

My leave date came out yesterday. It is "confirmed" as April 10th. I use quotation marks because I have learned to not trust any specific dates given to me by the Army. Ultimately I will be around Washington and the MidWest from mid to late April. I hope to link in with most of you. We'll see how many places I can hit within my 15 day window. I'll keep everyone posted if anything changes.

Anyway, my Company Change of Command is almost complete...about 3 more days. It has been a big project for me, but now I am already moving on to the next big project. It is good though. I continue to enjoy the fast pace. It makes time go by fast. Getting to Bible Study and even chapel has been difficult this past month due to an ever-changing schedule, but I am glad to say that I have been going as much as I am able. The transition from AQ to this base has been tough on keeping continuity with guys. Before they were always very close. They can get "lost" here due to the increase in size. God has been giving me opportunities to meet with a few key brothers, and that is always hugely encouraging. Time in the Word has also been good...about 15 more days until I finish the Bible for this past year. It seems like just yesterday I bought a new Bible and started in Genesis. I'm excited to start it over again. Okay...I need to go, but I will write again soon. Bye!

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Big Week

My VC (Vehicle Commander) Giving the "Hang 10" Sign...Because That's How My Crew Rolls

Dear Friends,

This week is the climax of this deployment in many ways. Iraqi elections have already begun, and they will end in less than 3 days. This is a huge step in determining the time line for our withdrawal. As a result, those of you who want me to come home early should pray for smooth sailing. Those of you who would like me to stay away for a bit longer can hope for craziness. Ha! But seriously, this is a big week for everyone in this country. Today my Commander and I were talking to a local tribal leader at his house. Everyone is very eager for these elections to be successful. The government is very determined, and you can see it by the actions they are taking to ensure security.

In other news, I finally made it to a Bible Study tonight at the new base. It was small, but I'm glad that I finally made the time for it. I have missed it this past month when my transition and schedule prevented me from attending. Like I have said in the past...there is a huge need here for Jesus. I was reading about Ezekiel's commission to deliver a message to the Israelites, and I realized that God's message is not an option to us...it is a command. The reception is out of our hands, but the delivery is dependent on our obedience. If I don't obey, then God will simply find someone else who will.

Sorry for the preaching...it's not my intent. However, I want everyone to know that God continues to be very good to my Soldiers and I while here. He continues to keep us safe, and I know that He still has big plans for this deployment. Anyway, I am excited to see many of you all soon. I make no promises, but I hope to come home for 2 weeks of leave relatively soon. We'll see, and I'll give everyone as much warning as I can. I'll be making my rounds. Laters!

Sunday, February 21, 2010

A Change of Scenery...

Me In Sadam's Old Throne


Tyson and I Playing With a New Toy (Unfortunately Tyson Got a New Job In Another Unit...He Moved Last Week)
Dear Friends,

Well, I changed bases last week, and I really haven't had much time to settle since. There is a lot going on right now, and I am just trying to get all the important stuff done. I have a lot of good news too. The gym here is great...there's an outdoor crossfit section which is very nice...working out in the sun is always enjoyable. The cafeteria is also a little better...still not the 5-star meals of the big bases, but an improvement for sure. It also is very nice to be closer to everyone now. It makes communication and accomplishing tasks a lot easier. It is tough to leave my old home behind, but it is a good change of scenery.
In other news...my new commander should be arriving soon. We are making lots of preparations, and the switch out will take about a month. It will be busy, but again..."busy is good." I am incredibly encouraged by recent changes, and I really look forward to going home. The current plan is to come home at the end of April...however, I remain at the mercy of the Army.

Finally, I was able to make it to both chapels this week and last. I need to make it to the Bible Study though. They have two a week at this base...one on Tuesday and another on Thursday. My main goal, though, is to start a smaller group of some of the guys who were in my study at AQ. Please pray that God would give me the heart and the time to do some kingdom work in addition to my Army job...there is still a huge need for Christ here. Okay, I'll write again when I am able. Until then!

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Helicopters, Crushing Rocks, and The Occasional Bang

Dear Friends,

Helicopters flying overhead, crushing rocks under the tires of Strykers, and the occasional "bang"...these are the sounds of IRock. Helicopters fly over our base all the time picking folks up, doing reconnaissance in the area, or whatever else the "fly-boys" do (ask Luke if you really want to know). Our entire base is covered in gravel to prevent muddy conditions so the Strykers make quite a sound when they roll through the gate. The occasional "bang" is not what you probably thing... it is actually usually someone slipping down the stairs which lead up to the guard tower on my roof. I think that the stairs are really dark at night because the guards usually have trouble getting down them. Anyway, the sounds here are definitely quieting down. You can tell that the Americans really are starting to take a back seat here. It is a good thing though...necessary for progress.

I have been reading some interesting stuff in Bible recently too...the Chaplain spoke this Sunday out of II Kings talking about when Israel "rediscovered" the Book of the Law in the temple. People were cut to the core when they heard its words because they knew that the conditions of their hearts were so bad. I daily find myself convicted, encouraged, and challenged by the Bible. I have found it to be the most needed routine of my day...this deployment has been a great opportunity to "immerse" myself into God's Word...it's amazing what you find out is most important to you when all the extra things are temporarily taken away. Okay...I'll stop preaching...too many preachers these days and not enough "do-ers". I will write again soon.

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

What Would Happen If...

Part of My New Crew
This is my view from a Stryker
Mark, Myself, and Mike (Left to Right) At the Golf Range
Dear Friends,

What would happen if you started hitting golf balls as hard as you could without stretching or warming up? I now know the answer now. You pull your back. Fortunately this injury only affects my golf swing and not my ability to stay active. However, it has been hard to not hit the green this week. The driving range will not be open forever and I am eager to work on my swing again. Anyway, our Bible Study this week finished the movie "Facing the Giants". The movie really challenged the faith of a lot of the guys who saw it. I want to try and use that conviction to get more of them in the Word so that they can apply their faith. It is funny how many of them are comfortable coming out to a Bible Study every week, but they don't get in the Bible daily. I couldn't imagine a day without God's Word anymore than I could a day without food or water. It has become that noticeable to me.

The weather here is still strangely warm during the days. There are still some cold nights but nothing unbearable in comparison to the winters of Washington or especially the MidWest. I still love to go relax under the stars at night...despite the violence of the land, you can't take the peacefulness out of its night skies. Obviously the U.S. will always be home, but I am doing well here. Thanks for all your continued support, letters, and prayers. I'll write again soon. Bye!

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Camp Fires And Long Days...

Yeah, I'm Playing Golf...In IRock.
The Sacred Campfire...Where Work Discussions Are Outlawed
Gift From My Family...The World's Longest Cigar...Seriously

Dear Friends,

Life continues to chug along here. I am faced daily with the challenge of living in the present rather than looking forward to future events...namely mid-tour leave. Sometimes it is difficult to remember of how great of an opportunity I have here...to grow personally, to make close friendships, and to share Jesus with those around me. I am over 1/3 finished with my deployment, and time just seems to continue to move faster. Ultimately I find myself incredibly blessed with a great team in Able Company. God has His hand here.

Other news? Hmmm...I have gradually come up with a list of favorite leisure activities to do while not engaged in work. If you are curious, they are as follows in no particular order:

(1) Working Out: The routine of starting everyday out with this is incredible.
(2) Reading the Bible: Try a day with it, then without...I find myself never wanting to miss my daily "feeding".
(3) Guitar: "Music heals the heart"...some famous dude said that.
(4) Campfires: Makes you feel like you're home.
(5) Yo-Yo'ing: Because there's nothing else to spend your money on :)
(6) Juggling: A skill that is useful in some many situation.
(7) Sleeping: I'll get to waste about a 1/4 of my deployment doing this.

So yeah...you all rock...I'll write again soon whenever something interesting enough presents itself. Bye!

Monday, January 4, 2010

Things Are About to Get Crazy...

Tristan...Wants to be a Soldier Too!
All the Kids (Brother and Sister-In-Law's...Not Mine) Before Their Christmas Play.

Dear Friends,

A good friend of mine told me about 8 months ago that he felt as though God was telling him, "Things are about to get crazy." I have to admit that it looks to be that way for me too. There is a lot of transition in my unit here which I won't go into detail about. Basically, I have a feeling that the next 3 months are going to seem like 3 weeks. There is a lot to do, and I have a lot of responsibility in it. I would appreciate your prayers as I look to work very hard to get things done right.

In other news, in Bible Study we decided to watch "Facing the Giants", a low-budget film with horrible acting but an incredible message that covers it up. I then bring up some applicable scripture to compare with themes of the movie. I'd like to avoid this night becoming a "movie-study", but I am very surprised to see the response from the guys as we go through it. There still continues to be a big need in our base. I have identified a lot of guys on the fence about Jesus. Hopefully He can tip them over to our side. There is still a lot of free time over here for guys to do a lot of soul-searching. My continued prayer is that they find the right stuff to invest in.

Okay, I will write again, but know that I continue to do well. The holidays are over which is kind of a good thing, and I am now only eager to move on to the next big task in a line of many. Bye!